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What is it about marriage that causes some people to lose their desire for sex? Why do some married people lose interest in sex soon after the honeymoon? Marriage sometimes causes some sex lives to slow down. Much of this revolves around the mystery of what will be discussed in this article. Here we will discuss ways of keeping things interesting and keeping them wanting more sex.

Some of these tips are common sense and some of them are pretty timid but work out great. The first one will be something of a mystery that everyone knows yet very few apply. What is it about desire that makes sex so sensuous?

Well, it is really pretty simple. The most desired fruit is the one in the garden that is denied. When good ole’ God set Adam and Eve down in the garden what did he say? You can have any fruit you want with one exception; the apple.

This was the ever so brilliant yet simple strategy. Lets say you have a bunch of colored candy balls and you want your child to eat the one you slipped vitamins into. The best thing to do would be to lay them all out and say, “Alright, you can have all of these but do me a favor and do not, what ever you do, do not eat that red one.” No explanation just the command is all it will take. Curiosity is a strong motivator. Especially, when it comes to our desires and sex.

Not to mention most of us act like kids when it comes to sex. If you are having trouble getting sex or enjoying it now that it has lost its appeal then try to be creative and mysterious. Offer something you normally are apprehensive about. Enjoy it too. One of the best ways to keep your partner interested in you is keep yourself interesting. It takes a little extra energy but it is worth it in the long run.

Another thing to consider is a schedule. Do you have one? If you do not then you should have one. Create a schedule that will be easy to keep. Once a week alone time for the both of you. This is also the key to being more spontaneous. You cannot be spontaneous if you do not have a schedule. Plus it gives you both something to look forward to.

Another thing to keep in mind is that giving is the best way to receive. Truly try your best to please the one you are married to by giving a little more of yourself. This means massages, foot rubs, oral sex, little things that your partner loves but has not asked for lately. The more you do for them then the more they will consider doing for you. Love is giving freely and with enthusiasm. So do not feel like you have to do this in order to get what you want. You should want to do this for them regardless.