Why Doesn’t She Want Sex?
There are so many stories of women turning down men for sex and the men get mad. Well as always I went and asked women the number one reasons as why they say “NO” to sex. Here are the top reasons given to me.
1. Tired. I know men, you are never too tired for sex. Seriously women do get too tired for sex and women want to enjoy the experience, not just lay there and pray for it to end. That is a bit harsh but that is how it was conveyed to me. Men if you would just be sympathetic and kind you would save yourself a lot of trouble. When men get mad at the women that makes the women not want sex because they feel you are being selfish.
2. PMS. Some women have bloating so sex may not feel as good and it may even hurt in some cases. Men just be respectful to the women about their “ladies days” and you can earn huge brownie points.
3. Anger. I realize men want sex no matter how they feel. But for a lot of women it is not just physical it is also emotional. So let me put it this way if the woman is mad chances are there will be no sex. If the men would like to have sex anytime in the near future, smooth over the situation as soon as possible.
4. Stress. We all have stress and for a lot of women sex is not the best stress reliever. For most women if the men would just sit down, talk to them, and listen to them that would relieve a lot of stress. Less stress means more sex.
5. Give. You know the old saying it better to give then to receive well there are some men not giving much. Men need to remember to give as much as they want to receive. Women who have to give more than the men will grow resentful and disinterested in sex. I know a lot men are givers but to those who are not givers you might want to start giving.
That covers the top reasons I came across as to why women do not want sex. I am not saying I agree or disagree with the reasons but people have their own reasons for everything. But I would like to add that women should never use sex as a tool to get what they want or hold it over the men’s head.